Archive for April, 2008

Discipline

Monday, April 28th, 2008

I… I have a problem. They say confession is good for the soul, so here it is: Hello, my name is Kate, and I have no discipline.

They say it takes 20 repetitions (so basically 3 weeks) to make an action a habit. But it only takes skipping that action 5 days in a row to lose the habit. And as you have likely noticed, I haven’t blogged in over two weeks. This is not because I was off saving Soviet Russia from nuclear holocaust, or inventing a storage solution for New York City closets – its just that I have no discipline. I got out of the habit. And getting back into a habit is sooooooo hard.

And its not just in blog writing – I have a horrible time getting to the gym, and once there, do you think I do the sit ups after the cardio? I know I should walk past the cinnamon bagels with strawberry cream cheese, or avoid buying that killer dress I don’t really need, but… I have absolutely no discipline. (But apparently a number of vices. Gluttony, Sloth, Vanity – I should just pick one and stick with it.) The biggest problem with this – aside from my expanding waistline and wardrobe – is that, as a writer, I NEED discipline! If I don’t get my ass off the couch and into a desk chair, I’m screwed. So, no matter what, I have to have discipline. In all aspects of life.

…Except for maybe that killer dress.

…and the bagels.

Special places

Tuesday, April 8th, 2008

I am incredibly lucky. I know it. I have a great family, who are wonderfully supportive, but make fun of me when I deserve it (and sometimes when I don’t, Andy). I have a job I love, awesome friends, a taste for oranges, am easily amused, live in the greatest city in the world, and have really pretty hair. (what? I DO.) But I consider myself truly lucky, because I have been going to Michigan every summer of my life.

To explain: my grandfather bought a tract of land on a small lake in the great state of Michigan over 50 years ago. He built a one-room cottage on that land, that over the years has grown through additions and the introduction of indoor plumbing into a summer house that my family goes to every year. The days are soft in summer, we swim in the mornings, sail in the afternoon. I can sit on the porch, eating cherries and reading (lots of romance novels), play volleyball with my neighbors, who I’ve known my entire life, or just lay on the dock, and watch the day drift by. It is the most special of places, and with my family and friends scattered to the four winds, it’s the place I know we will always come back to.

The reason I mention this special place, is that I’m making it the setting of the next book I’m working on. Not Michigan itself, unfortunately (as I write Regency-era historicals), but a lake, a summer house, where your neighbors watched you grown up, as you watched them, where people are lazy and unhurried and more themselves than anywhere else – because when faced with people who knew you when you were five, how can you not be? And a place where the problems over everyday fall away to allow you to realize what is truly important. What about you? Does anyone else out there have a special retreat?

In other, non-writing news, I’ve just learned I’m going to have to move apartments. *Groan*. I’ve lived in this apartment for 4 years… and I swear, my books have been breeding. I dread just thinking about packing them up!

Happy reading –

Kate Noble